Results Based Genealogy Tourism: Meeting German Family

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Black and white photo of George as a toddler with his older brothers and his grandparents

George with his grandparents and older brothers

Intersection of Genealogy, History, Family and Travel

Our travel blog, Travel Tug of War, focuses on stories about places and experiences. This article, though, is NOT our story. It is 100% dedicated to the legacy of George, Missy’s father, who passed away last year at 88 years old.

Readers should understand George’s limited international travel history: after completing a 1950’s military service abroad, for more than a half-century, George would not travel outside the U.S./ Canada.

Yet, George was always going on a journey. It began with in-depth ancestral research and evolved into genealogy tourism. Even today, after his death, his journey is ongoing. His American children have continued to embrace his German family, and these German relatives reciprocate that love in return. Amazingly, the two families have met in-person more than ten times in North America or Europe.

George’s early interest in genealogy and history has now perfectly transitioned to something much more: family and tourism.

George’s Journey to Discover His German Ancestry

Long before online genealogy services were readily available, George uncovered his distant German family by triangulating information from an Aunt who had traveled to Germany, a North Carolina-based Uncle who purchased German manufactured machinery for his American factory, and a bar owner named Ludwig in small-town Germany who was just kind enough to help out.

Back then, George took leave from his U.S. Army assignment on the then West Germany-Czechoslovakia border to make a surprise visit to 2nd cousins on the other side of West Germany.

A short fifty years later, he resumed his genealogy research efforts. A still youthful 77-year-old traveling with two of his sons, traveled across the Atlantic to meet German relatives and visit his ancestors’ home and farm. This was just the beginning.

Including that 2012 trip, our Tennessee-based family and German cousins will have met in person on eleven separate occasions. Think about that, eleven meetings over 13+ years…eleven times! Missy now has relationships with four separate 3rd-cousins and our sons have met two of their 4th-cousins. Four young men connected by their great-great-great grandparents. Pretty darn cool.

Missy and Brent & kids with family at Frankfurt airport

Missy and Brent with their kids meeting German cousins at Frankfurt airport

Let George Inspire Your Future Genealogy Tourism

We want George’s story to inspire others working on their family trees. And we would encourage the genealogist inside each of you to take two additional steps.

After learning your family’s genealogy, plan a trip to explore and better understand your roots. But let George’s example illustrate the value of going even further:

  1. Locate the distant relatives on your family tree and contact them on social media, by e-mail, or by phone.
  2. Build the foundations of a relationship and make meeting in person a priority for your next vacation abroad.

We cannot understate how memorable this experience can be; the legacy and connections you will leave your children and grandchildren are immeasurable. Although the direct relations formed involve Missy’s family, meeting her German cousins has been among the most gratifying memories with my own travel history.

Genealogy Research: Find and Meet German Family

German Grandfather Immigrates to the United States

George’s great-grandparents, Johannes and Eva, grew up in Germany. They would raise eight kids at the family home outside Geislingen, a beautiful town in southern Germany between Stuttgart and Munich, known for its five valleys.

One of those eight children and George’s grandfather, Johanne, immigrated to the United States from Germany in 1898, looking for the quintessential American dream of a better life. In so doing, he would leave behind his seven siblings. Johanne landed in the United States in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania.

37 years later in 1935, George was born in Philadelphia, but soon thereafter his family moved to Alabama when he was just two years old. Although not quite Southern at birth, he would become a Southerner for life. However, as you will learn, his true roots are an ocean away from the American South.

George in his military uniform

George in his Army 3rd Infantry uniform

George posing in front of tank that he worked on

George with tank on military duty in Bamberg, Germany

George Goes to Germany for Military Service

During the United States’ participation in World War II (1941-1945), approximately 10 million Americans were drafted into the military through the Selective Service System. A similar draft process remained largely in place through 1973 to supplement America’s military volunteers as the Cold War emerged.

After obtaining a college degree with ROTC training in 1957, George volunteered for military service in the U.S. Army. Being a volunteer with an ROTC background, George had some input regarding his eventual geography and role. After 16 weeks of basic training at Fort Benning in Georgia (recently renamed Fort Moore), young George was now heading off to Germany.

He was deployed overseas for more than 1 ½ years. His operating base was near Bamberg, 1 ½ hours from West Germany’s border with Czechoslovakia. Part of a four-person tank crew, George and two others were each capable of acting as the driver, gunner, and loader, working under the tank’s commanding officer. These tanks were fully equipped with explosives, cannon shells, and machine gun rounds, as the equipment provided both border security and an effective deterrent to military conflict.

Remember, this was West Germany, a decade after the conclusion of WWII. The world again faced significant uncertainty presented by the NATO alliance on one side and, on the other, the Soviet-backed Warsaw Pact involving most Eastern European countries, including Czechoslovakia. These global tensions led up to the Berlin Wall’s construction and the Cuban Missile Crisis in the early 1960s. This was the volatile backdrop during George’s service time in Germany.

WWII and Post-War Impact on Two German Cities Significant to the Family

Taking a small step back now… Germany became the central protagonist in two World Wars during the early-to-mid 1900s. Its lands were battlefields and bombing targets, and most of its population served in the military. During WWI, Germany joined Austria-Hungary, Bulgaria, and the Ottoman Empire as Central Powers. In WWII, Germany was aligned with Italy and Japan to form the Axis. The United States would oppose Germany in both wars.

For those global history, military, and political enthusiasts, we have visited (and written about) both of the National World War museums in the United States, the WWI Museum in Kansas City, Missouri and the WWII Museum in New Orleans, Lousiana. And both are excellent!

For George and his family, two German cities carried particular relevance: Geislingen and Saarbrücken.

George and sons eating dinner in Germany

George and sons enjoying Germany

George and son standing by river in Germany

Geislingen, Germany

Geislingen, Germany is home to George’s ancestors, and his grandfather was raised at the family home just outside of town. During WWII, the community had a satellite concentration camp which imprisoned 1,000 Jewish women and girls, forcing them to be laborers at the WMF industrial plant.

WMF was a metalworking company known for famous brands of stainless-steel utensils, but during this time its manufacturing capacity was converted for war-related production.

Today, multiple memorials stand at the plant’s location with a nameplate highlighting the women’s names. During the war, these imprisoned women would have been recognized only with numbers.

After WWII ended, Europe was overwhelmed by huge numbers of displaced refugees. During the mid-late 1940s, the relatively small town of Geislingen would become home to approximately 5,000 displaced Estonians. Fittingly, these people were primarily members of the Lutheran Church, the same faith as George’s Geislingen relatives.

While Geislingen was a community home to a satellite concentration camp just months/years earlier, it now becomes the de facto host for a displaced population. Sometimes, a difficult reconciliation process can actually move quite rapidly.

Saarbrücken, Germany

On the German-French border, the thousand-year-old city of Saarbrücken faced tremendous tumult during wartime. During the 2nd World War, the town faced significant damage to 80% of its buildings amid 20-30 distinct Allied bombing raids. And following the war, the greater Saarbrücken region became a French Protectorate, separated from Germany as it had been previously after the First World War. Unbeknownst to George, one of his 2nd cousins, Wolfgang, lived in Saarbrücken during this period of dramatic change.

During the late 1950s, while George served his military assignment 200 miles to Saarbrücken’s east, the city rejoined Germany in 1957. Two years later, Saarbrücken’s currency transitioned from the Saar Franc (or French Franc) back to the German Mark, thus completing its full reunion with Germany.

Saarbrücken today offers some unique history, charms, and authentic experiences for visitors, particularly for those travelers seeking a smaller German city away from larger tourist crowds.

George and his army buddies drinking beer at bar in Memmelsdorf, Germany

George with friends & Ludwig at bar in Memmelsdorf, Germany

George’s 1950s Initial Encounter with German Relatives

As noted previously, George volunteered for the U.S. Army. He chose Germany specifically to find his family. Remember that during the late-1950s, George didn’t have access to the online genealogy tools we have today. But he was determined and fearless, and he had some help:

  • Aunt Katherine – George’s Aunt Katherine had been to the family home in Geislingen, and she had compiled a rudimentary list of German relatives along with the name of the family home and farm, called Weilerhoehe. While George served in Germany, the two wrote letters back and forth, with Katherine providing a variety of names and addresses.
  • Ludwig, German Bar Owner – During his stay in Bamberg, George frequented a small bar in the nearby town of Memmelsdorf. It was here that the bar’s friendly owner, Ludwig, would help George by providing a list of family names across Germany. His assistance was invaluable within a post-war society that had become increasingly private and protective of precisely this type of information.
  • Uncle John – George’s Uncle John lived in North Carolina, where he was the co-owner of a sizeable hosiery mill, MoJud Hosiery, founded in the 1920s. Importantly, Uncle John’s cousin, Gerhard, also worked in the industry at a German machinery manufacturer utilized by companies such as MoJud. The first cousins forged a business and personal relationship over time.

George utilized these collective resources to locate a singular family member, Gerhard. Upon being granted a short leave from the Army, he immediately traveled to Gerhard’s hometown of Kornwestheim, 125 miles from the base.

Although he arrived unannounced and largely unknown to his relatives, he was accepted into their home and met Gerhard’s young children, Axel and Barbara, during the visit. For George, this entire German military assignment was now a major success!

America has always been recognized as a nation of immigrants. One of the harsh realities for American soldiers was that family members were indirectly fighting each other. For George’s extended family, this meant that Johanne’s children and grandchildren would fight on behalf of the Allied Powers (United States). In contrast, descendants of Johanne’s seven siblings would be fighting for the Axis Powers (Germany).

Uncle John’s only son was killed during WWII, shot during a bombing raid, while he served as the navigator on a B-17 bomber. John’s cousin, Gerhard, served as a major in an anti-aircraft battalion of the German military, charged with protecting the homeland by shooting down enemy bombers.

Separating nationality and family allegiances during wartime becomes a complex issue, further accentuating the horrible outcomes and costs of war.

Missy with her 3 brothers and parents

George with wife and children

George Retires and Renews Genealogy Efforts

Fast-forward to 2005. That Army tanker man in his early-20s patrolling the West German border is now 70. He has just retired, a father of four adult children and now a grandfather. This seems like a good time to start scratching that same itch that has always resonated deeply within him. So, George re-accelerated his efforts to build out his family tree. And this time, he had some better genealogy tools to assist him.

Combining these tools with the knowledge supplied decades earlier by Aunt Katherine, Uncle John, and a bar owner named Ludwig, George was now able to build a much more complete family tree.

While many amateur genealogists decide to stop here, he did not. He uncovered e-mail and mailing addresses, and then he wrote and wrote and wrote. A mixed reaction, as you can imagine. Returned letters to errant addresses, e-mails that didn’t successfully go through, and responses from unintended recipients, but also some impressive successes.

German Family Identified

He heard back from three second cousins, all sharing the same great-grandfather, Johannes, born in 1831. Each of these four men – George (U.S.), Axel (Germany), Peter (Germany), and Wolfgang (Germany) had a unique grandfather/grandmother from Johannes’ eight children. Of all of them, it was only George’s grandfather who had departed Germany for America.

Over the next 6-7 years, George actively communicated with his 2nd cousins sharing old memories and talking about current families. He had met Axel, one of Gerhard’s children when he served back in Germany, but this had been nearly 50 years ago, while his interactions with the other two cousins represented first-time connections.

Genealogy Tourism: George Returns to Germany

In 2012, a decision was made that would shape George in unimaginable ways. As a 77-year-old, he would travel to Germany with two of his sons. He would see Axel again and introduce himself to Wolfgang and his family for the first time. And they would collectively travel to his family’s hometown, church, home, and farm.

Straight from the 1980s movie, Planes, Trains & Automobiles, George and his sons traveled to Germany. A flight to Brussels, Belgium (Brussels beer and chocolate post here); a train to Koblenz, Germany; a boat ride from Koblenz to Bingen; and a car ride to Saarbrucken (and ultimately driving to the ancestral home in Geislingen).

George standing at baptismal font at church where his grandfather was baptized near Geislingen, Germany

Baptismal font where George's great grandfather was baptized

George walking through cemetery alongside his grandfather's family church in Germany

George's great grandfather's church in Germany

At family church's cemetery WWI memorial listing deceased names including those of family members.

WWI Memorial Headstone

At family church's cemetery WWII memorial listing deceased names including those of family members.

WWII Memorial Headstone

Meeting with His Cousins

Axel, his wife, and one of his daughters would join them on the boat ride in Wiesbaden, having driven four hours to meet George and his sons. The group disembarked at Bingen and was met by Axel’s son, along with Wolfgang, his wife, and one of his daughters.

There is something truly exceptional about distant relatives traveling long distances to meet with someone they didn’t know, and where even basic communication was limited by language barriers. The Americans knew no German, and the German 2nd cousins knew very little English; only through the daughters’ translation assistance could the cousins rudimentarily communicate.

After spending time at a beer garden in Bingen, George said farewell to 2nd cousin Axel, whom he had last seen 50+ years ago. George and his sons would next travel to Wolfgang’s home in Saarbrücken, where they would spend two days visiting the town, meeting Wolfgang’s entire family, and sightseeing around the area.

Missy and I have also seen and written about our trip around Saarbrücken.

Returning to George’s Ancestral Home

On the final day of the visit, George and his sons would drive to Geislingen to see the town where George’s great-grandparents raised eight children. Their visit started at a Lutheran Church and included the holy water font where many of his relatives had been baptized over two centuries before.

An adjacent cemetery was a further reminder of his family’s legacy in the community: headstones of relatives and two special memorials to townspeople killed during World War I and World War II. Each stone memorial etched with names from George’s extended family.

The group’s final stop was the family home and farm known as Weilerhoehe. The historic home has remained in the family for approximately 200 years and is still owned by family members. The original structure was actually built from stones removed and recovered from the surrounding farmland.

The German and American cousins had dinner a final time that evening. In the morning, Wolfgang’s family headed west back to Saarbrücken, while George and his sons would travel another week in Europe before returning to the United States.

At this point, the American and German families’ reunion story was most likely over.

George and family at his grandfather's family home in Germany

George and family at his grandfather's family home

The Family’s Relationship Strengthens

Alas, the story has not ended. And maybe it’s just beginning.

  1. 2013 – Wolfgang and his wife come to Memphis, USA
  2. 2015 – Brent and Missy travel to Frankfurt, Germany to meet Wolfgang’s family
  3. 2016 – Wolfgang and his wife return to Memphis, USA a second time
  4. 2017 – One of Axel’s daughters comes to Memphis, USA
  5. 2018 – Axel’s daughters travel together to Memphis, USA
  6. 2019 – Brent and Missy visit Saarbrücken, Germany
  7. 2019 – Brent and Missy meet Axel’s daughters in Brussels, Belgium
  8. 2024 – Brent and Missy return to Saarbrücken, Germany
  9. 2025 – Wolfgang’s grandson visits Memphis, USA
  10. 2025 – Wolfgang’s daughter meets American family at a U.S. national park
  11. 2025 – Missy’s brother and sister-in-law see Wolfgang and his family in Germany

Count those meetings up. Three limbs on George’s family tree, sharing one great-grandfather. Collectively, the family followed up a once-in-a-lifetime meeting between cousins in Germany… with eleven additional visits over the next 12 years.

This is a collection of people who have always demonstrated a willingness to go out of their way to get together. During our quick stop-off in Brussels, one of Axel’s daughters flew from Germany to see us. On our last trip to Europe, we took a memorable side trip from Paris to Saarbrücken to spend 24 hours with our family.

And remember how languages were a communication barrier early on. Wolfgang taught himself English to better communicate with George. Wolfgang’s wife also put forth significant effort learning English before their final visit to the United States.

Up until George’s passing last year, he still actively communicated with his German relatives regularly through e-mail. Take a moment to consider the commitment and unwavering love demonstrated from people that didn’t know each other 15 years ago.

George and son with mugs of beer at German beer garden
George and son enjoying beers at German beer hall

George with his sons at German beer halls

The Ultimate Payoff to Genealogy Research

For George, his journey of self-discovery started nearly 70 years ago. He found his German relatives not once but twice. And he had the opportunity to visit the German town and long-time family home where his grandfather and seven siblings were raised. He formed lasting relationships with multiple 2nd cousins and has a deep connection with Wolfgang, which keen observers might consider to be more like the relationship of brothers than distant cousins.

Even after his passing, George left a legacy. For decades to come, I know that Missy’s dad will be comforted in heaven knowing that his heritage and German roots will be passed on. George’s daughter and three brothers now know their 3rd cousins, and George’s four grandchildren have the opportunity to sustain long-term relationships with their 4th cousins. It’s up to us to keep going what George spent a lifetime creating. We will do our best.

To me, that’s the real magic of genealogy. By all means, build your family tree, but don’t stop there. And visit your native country, but don’t stop there either.

Travel to these foreign countries and find your most distant relatives, and maybe if you’re just a little bit lucky, those relatives will truly become your family. Good luck as you begin your own journey.

Pre-Travel Checklist

You’re itching to plan that next trip, selecting experiences, tickets, tours, transportation, & hotels… but you should also keep a pre-trip checklist with key considerations. Make your vacation safer and more secure, help overcome logistical challenges, and provide travel diversions between destinations. Don’t forget!

  • Travel Insurance | Faye – Insurance for emergency healthcare, trip cancellation, lost/damaged luggage, rental cars, and adventure sports
  • Digital SIM Card | Airalo – Eliminate the need for physical SIM cards and avoid exorbitant international data plans offered by your existing cellular provider
  • VPN Access | NordVPN – When traveling, add this supplemental layer of security to your public Wi-Fi (i.e.-hotel) usage
  • Audiobooks | Libro – When driving/flying long distances, listening to an audiobook is the perfect distraction (added bonus: a portion of each purchase goes to your local bookstore)

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